If it looks like ADHD and sounds like ADHD, must it be ADHD?
Instinct and Diagnosis
Parents are their children’s biggest champions. We fight for them, advocate for them and protect them. But what if it gets hard? what if our child is always angry, gets in trouble in school, fights with his friends? Advocating and defending get hard. Then the teacher calls you to discuss your child’s academic, social and behavioral difficulties and proceeds to discuss ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). Confused??
There are many conditions that have similar symptoms to ADHD and must be ruled out before a proper diagnosis. Conditions like sleep apnea, eating disorders, and even PANDAS which is Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders and is Associated with Streptococcal Infections and others.
If you too feel your child is struggling, follow your instinct. Start by scheduling an appointment with your pediatrician. Before the appointment it is recommended you collect the following:
A detailed family medical history
A behavior log from the teacher - don’t ask them to go into specific as they will be asked to do so for the diagnosis. Ask for general negative behaviors, academic struggles, social difficulties, etc.
Sleep log - when does your child go to bed, any bedtime rituals, what time do they fall asleep/wake up, quality of sleep (for example, night terrors).
Dietary issues - food allergies, sensitivities, dislikes, and general daily diet.
Sensory issues - if your child does not like certain textures, smells, tastes.
These things will help your PD focus and get relevant answers.
Your diagnosis journey starts with the Pediatrician but does not end there. The gold standard of ADHD diagnosis is a neuro-psych evaluation that examines the child holistically; neurologically, physically, emotionally, and mentally and offers a thorough report. You need to keep in mind that the neuro-psych evaluation may take time to book and may not be fully covered by insurance, but it is the best start for naming and treating the condition.
Follow your instincts and take the first step to life with ADHD.